Life is always full of competition and no matter how hard
you try to be the best wife, mother, husband, brother or friend there is always
going to be someone who looks as if they are doing a far better job than you.
That person usually has it all together and she is usually
slim and tall, applies her make-up perfectly, she is graceful and poised as she
floats through the room, leaving a scent of a floral bouquets with perfect etiquette
and conversation. Her children are always the most polite and well behaved and
wearing the lasted Earth Child clothing which you now wish you had bought at
the time. She is successful, glamorous and she is beautiful. So as you sit in
the corner watching her in awe with stars in your eyes, you wonder why your
life or your body did not turn out that way.
What is it exactly that makes her better than you? You find ways to try
to make her less, by finding faults with what could not even be her fault. But
your reaction has got nothing to do with her and everything to do with you.
You not jealous of her.
You are insecure.
She makes you feel unsure of yourself and your place in
life. She unsettles you because you think you should be competing on her level,
and you know that on that level, you have already lost and she has the trophy.
She makes you feel inadequate and like a failure in life. Being around her is
like constantly having to up your game and it is exhausting. She floats around the
room totally unaware of the feelings which are gutting you, oblivious to the
anguish and pain she has caused you and that’s because she doesn’t know, and
more importantly these are issues which you have to face. These are issues
which you have to spend time with in a quiet room and deal with.
You need to know that you are enough, and no matter who
walks through that door no one will ever take your place. You need to know that
there will always be someone thinner, smarter, richer and prettier than you, but
no one can replace what you bring to the table.
You are THAT woman. You are
loved and yes people will cry when you die. But most of all don’t ever let your
own insecurities ruin another woman. That isn’t fair. Your insecurities are a
reflection of YOU and not of her. She has not inflicted any harm upon you
intentionally yet the look of your impending condemnation is written all over
your insecure face.
That woman has her own insecurities but she is just doing
the best she can do and going about her life. She has made peace with her lot
and wishes to be surrounded by like- minded woman, who will support and love
each other rather than try to tear each other down.
Outfit Details
Shoes @ Legit
Dress @ Chanel
Bag @ Michael Kors
Glasses @ Prada
Belt @ Moschino
