Keeping secrets....

The one thing I really hate doing is keeping secrets. Not that I'm bad at it...lol its just that its sooo extremely stressful. You have to lie continuously to the people you care about and you have this huge cloud hanging over your head. So I don't keep secrets. I'm pretty much an open book and I am fortunate enough to have friends who don't gossip about each other. All we talk about is ourselves, our kids, our business and families. Our focus is on improving our lives and not putting other people down.

I was recently told a big family secret and it has been driving me crazy!! I cant stop thinking how that person must feel with everyone now gossiping about her behind her back. Yess its an awful secret, but who is without sin? I keep wanting to approach her and tell her what's going on, but then again she will think I was the one who started it...I really hate that I know about it. I mean I was perfectly happy when I didn't know a thing. Whoever said ignorance is bliss, is very right, cause I was very happy before this incident.

And like I do with every incident I decided to dissect it-How did this all start? With a secret? Someone told someone else and now its a virus. The moral of the story: Don't keep secrets, especially ones that could ruin relationships or break up happy homes. Tell the truth no matter how hard it is, cause the truth will always be followed by I'm sorry and I'm sorry usually gets forgiveness. But after a lie and maybe lying continuously, its very difficult for someone to forgive you. Yes, that person will be upset and rightfully so but its so much worse keeping a secret and having everyone talk about it and make it worse than it is.

Also, don't spread other peoples secrets. If you know about it, keep quiet. Its not your business first of all and don't be that girl who brings someone else down to try to elevate yourself. We all have done and said things we not proud of. Try to support her and make sure that she handles it in the best way possible.

And lastly, if you are going to let go of your secrets, make sure you fully understand that there will be consequences. So prepare yourself mentally and emotionally and reassure yourself that you doing the right thing. Your load will immediately feel lighter and you will see a difference in the quality of your life cause its no fun having that cloud above your head.

Todays outfit
Dress and Glasses  +GUESS
Shoes @Foschini
Bag @MK

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