Everyday we are faced with adversity. There is always some or the other fight that's brewing either in our personal lives or professionally. Sometimes it's just fighting with a call centre agent for something they were supposed to do or trying to get your pre auth done with your medical aid. But it's a fight that drains us and leave us feeling helpless and like a deprived child at Christmas.
I hate fighting. I plan way in advance so as to avoid any kind of confrontation with anyone that's how much I hate fighting but even for me it's inevitable. I think the important thing here is to ask yourself
"is is worth it?"
Are you pesueing this point just to inflate your ego? To make sure that the other person is going to acknowledge your point and apologise? Or has the fight led to insults and threats and has now escalated into something personal which you seek revenge for? It's so easy for one of these battles to become something huge. Especially if it's over the phone or email cause that's when we all very brave. But before you are led down the path of no return as yourself as many times as possible ....is it worth it? And worth it does not mean the satisfaction of winning he argument..its achieving your end game when the conversation is done.
So if your answer is no. Then you know what to do. I know it's not the easiest thing to do. I struggle so much with my big fat mouth that just says stuff all the time....lol! But I consciencely try because it drains me and spoils my day and I would rather not add stress to my life. I have too much to worry about than to add to my own pile.
The fashion today...
I love today's outfit it looks very Chuck Bass! The shorts and the jersey are from Mr Price. The shirt is from Guess. The shoes are from PQs and the bag is from Foschini.
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